August 12, 2024"We don't want to suffer. We don't want to feel discomfort. So the whole time, we're living our lives in a very comfortable area. There's no growth in that." — David Goggins ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ ↓ Hey look, a chance to support the newsletter!
Please let me know here if you can't see the ads. Thanks! ↑ ↑ ↑ ↑ ↑ ↑ Hardest thing to doWhich of these three things do you think is statistically the most difficult to do in America?
If you've been with me a while, you might know that the surprising answer is number 3 - the Chick-fil-A franchise. This is mostly a matter of "fun with statistics," because CFA gets about 60,000 initial franchise applications per year and only opens between 75 and 80 restaurants. That works out to a .13 percent success rate. Harvard University? This year the already self-selecting group of A students, class presidents, and varsity team captains each had a 3.7 percent shot at getting in. So let's talk about the Navy SEALs, which if you count everyone who applies to join the Navy and become one has a 9.5 percent chance of making it through the entire year-plus worth of training. This includes a single week called Hell Week that has only a 25% to 33% success rate. Personally, I am happy that there are people who want each of these three things—especially the Navy SEALs—but I don't think I've aspired to any of them. However, today is a good day to remember someone for whom becoming a Navy SEAL was an obsession, and who had to try as hard as anyone (over and over) to achieve his goal. Frankly, he's become quite an inspiration to a lot of other people since. If you don't know him already, I invite you to meet David Goggins: retired Navy SEAL (how's that for foreshadowing?) and author of the out-of-nowhere bestseller, Can't Hurt Me: Master Your Mind. Raised in East Buffalo, N.Y., and then a small town called Brazil, Indiana, Goggins describes his childhood as "hell on earth," including an abusive father and run-ins with the KKK (Goggins is Black). He joined the Air Force after high school, served four years, and then left -- a decision he soon came to regret. I've seen this so many times in writing about people in the military who get out but have no good plan for afterward, and find themselves lost. Goggins went from one minimum wage job to another, eventually worked as an overnight exterminator, became depressed, eating a box of doughnuts and drinking a big milkshake every morning (among other things), and gained well over 100 pounds. As he tells it, however, a TV special about Navy SEALs training caught his eye -- one of those reruns you might see in snippets or reruns, over and over -- and gave him a new goal: I watched men sweat and suffer ... I couldn't remember feeling as awful as these men looked. They were swollen, chafed, sleep-deprived, and dead on their feet, and I was jealous of them.
The longer I watched the more certain I became that there were answers buried in all that suffering. Answers that I needed.
What Goggins did afterward -- well, it formed the basis for his book, and his career now.
Interesting timing, right? Goggins went on to serve another 16 years in the SEALs including combat in Afghanistan and Iraq, complete a bunch of other very challenging military courses, and eventually retired when he hit 20 years combined military experience. Since then, he's become known as an ultramarathoner, ultra-distance cyclist, triathlete, and author/speaker. In fact, I don't think I'd heard of Goggins (I completely missed his book at the time) until a few years ago when readers began citing him as an inspirational and highly quotable role model. I'm at the point in life when I can't tell you if 23 years is a lifetime or the blink of an eye, but that's how long ago this past weekend Goggins reached this milestone. So let's give him our quote of the day: Our whole life is set up in the path of least resistance. We don't want to suffer. We don't want to feel discomfort. So the whole time, we're living our lives in a very comfortable area. There's no growth in that. Not a bad thing to think about the next time the going gets tough. See you all on Understandably tomorrow.
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